How to be a Legend Mailbag – Rebound
by malkcontent on May.19, 2010, under Letters, Mailbag
O Great and Powerful Malk
I need to inquire into your legend philosophy.
Well I got dumped then replaced within 3 weeks lol & i really dono if i should just got f*ck it & treat all woman like there beneath me cause i started to give that one to much control near the end arghh lol should i just be myself again or change to be more alpha ?
Rg’s
N00bface
Yo N00bface,
well no you shouldn’t start treating all women badly based on her actions.
Legend philosophy says that you judge each person individually by their choices, your way it’s like saying because a black person stole your shoes, hate all black people.
However you should also learn by your mistakes and not get into the situation of letting someone get that much control; there are usually signs the relationship’s deteriorating
As for the changing the way you act, nah never change dude unless you’re not happy with yourself and acting distinctly unLegendary. Without specifics I don’t know the Legend Level. The fact you’re asking me shows distinct potential though.It can’t have been shit for 14 months, relationships do change the thing is to recognise when you’re not happy, decide if it can be fixed, if not, move on.
As for getting anyone new fast, no point in rebounding dude, don’t let her actions dictate yours.
You’re your own man.Just because she’s got someone new doesn’t mean you need to, also as standard protocol don’t be hanging about with her, chatting about or to her or checking her facebook etc. get her f*cking blocked everywhere too.
There’s no need to pretend to be friends.
Cheers
M